Saturday, December 6, 2014
There are many kinds of lies, and of liars. We all lie sometimes. But not everyone lies the same way. Not everyone hurts the same people when they lie.
Some people lie, and hurt other people. They make you believe things that aren't true, and when you find out the truth... it hurts you so much. Those lies usually give you a vision of certain people that isn't true. You think people are some way, but they're not.
But not everyone lies that way.
Some people lie, and only hurt themselves with their lies. I'm saying "some people", but I should say that a lot of people lie this way I'm talking about now. Have you ever said "I'm fine" when you weren't? You weren't fine, but you didn't want anyone to worry about you. You didn't want to annoy anyone with your problems. You thought that they had better things to do than listen to your problems. You thought that they wouldn't even care. So, then, why even bother?
You tried so hard not to hurt anyone, because that's the last thing you want, to hurt other people. But, what happened? You ended up hurting who should be the most important person for you: yourself.
We all try to protect the people we care about, and the people we love. But, telling someone about our problems isn't the right thing to do. Because, your problems, no matter how big or small they are, they'll become bigger. And, you don't want that, do you?
We aren't getting anything good from lying to people. Sometimes it's totally okay to lie, but, opening up, and telling the truth solves a lot of problems.
I hope you all have a good weekend!