Friday, February 13, 2015
Asking for help.
We're all human. We all have a breaking point. We have our ups and downs, as everyone else. We aren't unbreakable. We aren't invincible. No matter how strong we are or pretend to be... we all break sometimes.
And that's okay.
To fall down, to break and all that is completely okay. However, there's something about it that it's not okay. You know what it is? Our pride. Our damn pride that makes us hide it when we break down. We want to keep being that strong person the world thinks we are, so we hide it all. Even though it breaks us inside... that happens sometimes.
Other times, it's different what stops us from admitting we've broken down. Sometimes, it's the thought of ourselves as a burden, as a problem. The thought that what we feel is not bad enough to share it with someone, the thought of bothering people by sharing our pain is what mostly stops people from telling someone when they break down.
The truth about that is that... those thoughts aren't true. I mean, you feel them, yes, you do. But that's not true. If someone really cares about you, if you're important to them, they'd prefer you to share it with them instead of keeping it all to yourself, which doesn't solve anything and ends up making it all way worse.
Sometimes, you have to push your pride or whatever away, and admit it when you need help, and accept it. There are things you have to deal with by yourself, but... there's nothing wrong about accepting help. It's the best for you, and, believe me, people around you would rather you to share your feelings with them if you need it.
Truth is, there are more people who care about you than you can even imagine.